WHY DO KIDS BULLY ONE ANOTHER

Your child might be a bully due to some reason, is now the responsible of the parents to find out the reasons why your child is being tagged as bully and what you need to do to help the child stop bullying.

The following can the reasons why kids bully one

·        Children bully because they are frustrated and cannot manage their anger

·        Learnt  behaviour

·        Lack of parental attention

·        Self esteem

·        Envy

·        Revenge

Ø Depression: When a child is depressed he/she cannot control his/her anger it leads to bullying others having the believe that is the easiest way to feel better.

Ø Learnt Behaviour: What will become the behaviour of a child who watches him/her parents fight often at home?. Most Kids that are exposed to domestic bully or violence have the possibility of bullying others due to the fact that they see it as a normal way of life.

I want astonished one Sunny afternoon,when I saw two kids picking on each other in the process of the argument the eldest among them said I will beat you like how my Dad use to beat my mum.

Ø Lack of parental Attention: Some children lack parental care or training, as a result of that, they were not taught how to make use of the right choice of word when communicating with others and this can leads to bullying when words are wrongly used.

Ø Self Esteem: Due to lack high self-esteem, some kids believe that bullying other kids will earn them respect among their peers. Other’s bully because they have high self-esteem and are in quest to improve their social status by bullying to become more popular.

Ø Envy: Most children gets envious of the others for some reasons which involves: their academic achievements, possessions etc. some kids see it as reason to bully each other thereby frustrating their life of their peers.

Ø Revenge: Some kids have this habitat of getting back at others (paying them in their own coins) sometimes kids think that they are trying to get back at someone who was really mean to them with little knowledge that they a bulling them.